OMG, she needs weekend to fight. I had to raise my voice to stop her
Its during a visit to our new flat. There is lot of civil work going on. And the contractor has made whole house a mess. I have talked to him regarding cleaning so many times.
And there was some confusion regarding tiles as well. Every single work is told by her. I had no role in that. Yesterday, there was some confusion in tiles. Today we saw it, and it was a mistake.
On returning, she started complaining about this. I told her, that every single thing is told by you. I have no role. If I'm saying yes to him that too after asking you. But no.
I told her to be calm so many times. But no.
We reached home. She started again, I know she is worried, but when I said I understand you and I will tell him. What else we can do.
She continuous yelled, some at me, some at him. I again told her to be calm, I'm also speaking in calm voice, why are you raising your voice. She said I'm like this only. WHich she usually said. To which, I said then I'm going. If you can't talk normally.
I had to leave her in another room to avoid her. She came again, this time full target on me. I said again, calm down. But no.
I raised my voice now. I was clearly frustrated. I told her, how many times I told you to stop, talk in lower voice, what is the problem. But no.
Once I raised my voice, then she went. And said, I will not do any work, you handle it.
I mean, come on. She does this everytime. And she is doing it repeated times. Since when we started work, she constantly giving this thing that she is the one handling all work. I appreciated her, but I found so many mistakes in her work. I appreciate that she has many contacts and we are getting some things at discounted price. But, when someone does not listen to others and keep self praising herself, what can I do.
There are so much work, that she did UNDO. I mean, contractor did something, and next day she said no it should be done like this. On the other hand, we are bothering about completing work on time, but are giving so many repeated tasks.
I'm very simple person. She is taking complete advantage of it. I know, I'm not that smart in handling people. But, thats the way I am. Nobody can be perfect in everything.