sometimes it's better to learn ABOUT the cure rather than worrying about the decease.
After loosing some of the important people in my life and also recently my pet as well. I have noticed that no one was actually there for them , not even those who said they love them. Even their own family . And when the person is no more, those people start regretting not being there for them , not paying attention, and recalling memories they have with them. No matter how rich , happy, poor, or sad you are now , the end will be the same. All we have is now, this day . Just live it and do what's makes your heart smile.
You can employ someone to drive the car for you, make money for you but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you.
One day or another, we all have to die. Nothing is forever! Do live your dreams.
I would like to share a story of my friend who died because of cancer two years ago. But one thing I didn't liked about him was being waiting for that day when he will be no more rather then living each and every second left of his life. Me loosing him was a biggest nightmare but we both know its going to happen.
He was not the same person he used to be when we both were in same class, that person who always making other laugh, cracking stupid jokes and doing crazy stuff.
Me and him both were looking at each other when his mother told what's was there in his reports . Aunty's words were " he is going to die! My son is going to die. He hardly have a couple of months left" that was when I was aware of the fact that again it's going to happen , after dad and my pet. Am again going to loose the one I love as my best friend, my buddy my crime partner my life . I all I had was some months to be with him. But this time, god gave me a chance to do what I didn't get to do before. To show how much I care and how much I love him.
Till the day aunty told us about him I was always there for him. I used to visit him everyday and more often used to do night stay with him, because I just wanna spend more and more time with him.
With those passing time I have learned alot looking at him that material things lost can be found. But there is one thing that can never be found when it is lost -" life".
We use to play games together, watch movies all night . Used to cook together and most of the time the dish got burned and we get scolded by his mom but she knew that we both were just having fun and I was trying to let him forget about what coming and focus on what's there right now and just enjoy.
But I knew deep inside, he was worried. He was worried about his mother, how would she survive without him and his father was also dead . How would she manage to overcome the loss of her son's death. He was worried about her expenses, her happiness, her life. And that all worries were now visible on his face. He was getting weaker and weaker day by day. Not eating properly . Not doing any thing and just lying on his bed all day long. He started ignoring me because he knew that meeting like this and hanging out like this might make our bond even stronger and that would cause more sadness and pain after when he is gone.
He didn't want anybody around him, not even his mother or me .
And one day , he's gone. Just like that. No goodbies no hugs no our last picture,. Just gone. Didn't tell me how he felt about us, didn't wish me luck and strength to be alone without him all my life. Didn't tell me to take care of him mom. Nothing!.
I didn't cry though. I knew he didn't want me to. I bought him his favourite red roses which he always want me to bring for him on his birthday, because he always says that " all of my friends and family brings things they thought I would love but I want you to bring sonething that only you know I love because our friendship is special" . So I did the same . All I said standing there in front of him at that very last moment was " love you buddy" and left !